I had a tough past couple of weeks recently. As I was traveling last week, every time I started to have a negative or hopeless thought, I stopped and looked up. Because I love photos and capturing moments, I snapped a pic of the ceilings that were around me. & I literally said to myself … More Don’t forget to look up Nikki
When you are healing, you have to learn to get comfortable in being uncomfortable. That’s the only way to the other side. Deeply beautiful, raw & consuming emotions will come. Let them + process them. That’s the only way to really heal. The process is not linear-meaning there will be times of sadness & joy. … More Navigating through love & loss. Can they coexist?
So here I am at the end of the series, and I am feeling quite differently than I thought that I would. My intention was to encourage and empower other women to stop negative self-talk and break bad habits in 21 days, because it’s a proven fact that it takes about that long to do … More 21 days of affirmation-Day 21: Sometimes you have to learn from yourself.
Blessed and thankful! Nikki ❤️
How many times have you been scrolling you Facebook timeline and have come across a friend’s post about all of the wonderful things that are happening for them, and thought “Wow, I can’t wait until God blesses me like that”. Or as your thumbs are smoothly pressed against the glass of your smart screen you … More 21 days of affirmation-Day 17: Grow where you are planted.
Nikki went to bed at 9:30 everyday this weekend. Because she hasn’t rested well. Nikki didn’t go to the gym this week. Nikki hasn’t practiced good self-care. Don’t be like Nikki. Take care of yourself. On my 1 day off, I like to read, write, journal, be a social media affidecio.. you know, relax. Not … More 21 days of affirmation-Day 16: Rest girl!
It works. Nikki ❤️
I know that when I started out writing these affirmations, my goal was to put out positivity to women. In hopes that we could stop the self-negative talk that causes us to doubt ourselves and not live up to who God wants us to be… But what happens when your ATTITUDE is the problem? *yikes … More 21 days of affirmation-Day 12: Check your attitude, girl.
I started nursing school when my oldest was 4 months old. She is 13 now. I was a 21 year old newlywed and wanted a career that helped people, nursing was perfect. Fast forward 4 years to 2 kids later, and I was working 12 hour night shifts at one of the most busy hospitals … More 21 days of affirmation-Day 10: Be present
Disappointment. Denial. Anger. Sadness. Fear. Some of the things you may feel when you have a loss, or when something unpleasant happens to you. Although you may have not been able to put a label on it, you felt it. But possibly, like me, you didn’t want to acknowledge those feelings at the time. There … More 21 days of affirmation: Day 8-Feel it, all of it.